Let's be nice

 Nice things about the (ex) husband;

holding hands while watching TV

watching him put honey on his sandwich.  

laying on the stairs of our new home

laughing in bed over sexual mishaps

messing with our neighbor (Independence Day on delay)

proud he aced that test

sharing puns

trying to save squirrels and ducks

my bow on the grab handle

his face in my car

making him fix things I already took apart

laughing at his daughter when she got busted

pushing me down the hallway

things that begin with G

"you're number 1"

he always looked good after a haircut

getting the hint when I want neck kisses

This list is longer than I thought it would be.  Still short compared to the other list.  


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